Good morning my fellow Nigerian Youths.
Today let’s talk about FORGIVENESS!!

Forgiveness is the act of pardoning an offender. A lot has been said about forgiveness & it is a topic that cannot be exhausted on one post.

Forgiveness is actually an important part of our life. In every human relationship, forgiveness is needed because we were not born perfect.

People are bound to hurt us once in a while & you are bound to hurt people as well whether knowingly or not. This is just something we can’t run away from in relationships but what makes the difference is how we react .

When someone hurts us, we want them to suffer like we did & if that doesn’t happen, we withhold forgiveness.

The cost of unforgiveness is very high.

THINGS TO NOTE ABOUT UNFORGIVENESS

👉Unforgiveness they say, is like drinking poison & waiting for the other person to die.

👉It drys you up & hinders your growth.

👉It rubs you of your peace, joy & brings sickness to your body.

👉 It blocks your blessing & keeps your prayers unanswered.

👉 It leads to bitterness & anger which can spread like cancer to attack every area of our lives.

Forgiveness is not really for the other person but for you. In the Bible, Jesus said we should forgive 70 times 7. This can only take divine help but we were told to do so.

Please note that forgiveness doesn’t exonerate the person but this is the gift you give to yourself .

Don’t let Unforgiveness control you rather be in control & LET GO!

The level of hatred amongst “friends and family ” is at alarming levels these days, but always forgive, ignore and move on!

Avoid discussing your friends/family/relationship/ associate with people.

Remember; a listening ear is a running mouth!!!

Try to resolve matters with the person involved. Not forgiving is like carrying a heavy load/burden and it will slow you down!

People have hurt their dependants, people have hurt their benefactors. But at the end of the day, what heals you is forgiveness!!!

No matter how hard it may seem, let’s learn to forgive so that we can be able to live our lives to the fullest.

Forgive someone today!!!

Love and light always

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